Most of us are a little apprehensive when it comes to writing about ourselves.  What is too much, or when are we not saying enough?  Keep in mind this is not a job interview.  Your objective is to meet new, interesting people. This experience is exhilarating, so start the fun now.  Your journey begins with how you portray yourself to the others. If you have found yourself perplexed, try the following tips for writing an online profile.

·          If you are NOT UPLOADING A PHOTO, don't expect anything.  Seriously, this is merchandising 101...and if you do not know this already, YOU'RE THE PRODUCT.  Most people do not buy things site unseen...or at least when they do, it's the exception and not the rule.  No photo profiles tend to send the message, "I have something to hide and therefore I shouldn't be here".  Not showing other members who could have potential to be "that person" you could spend special time with, just short-changes your experience.  Advice:  Just avoid those profiles.

·         Honesty is always the best policy.  You are trying to meet a quality person, and false statements will only lead this to be a disappointing experience for everyone involved.

·         Remember to be positive.  Show yourself in the best light possible without sounding cocky and arrogant.  Negativity may cause people to pass your profile over. Your less than appealing traits can be revealed without sounding negative.  "I cannot spell and have a horrible sense of direction" would be better projected with; " for me, the greatest inventions of late would have to be spell check and GPS.  I could not make it through my day without either."

·         Ask yourself, what makes me different or appealing?  Try to project that side of you with some creativity. Very often the traits that make us most interesting are very subtle parts of our personality, so put some thought into your habits.

·         Avoid making lists.  A list of adjectives is really not very interesting, even if you use a LOT of them.  This applies to your description of yourself as well as what you are looking to find. I am a happy, adventurous person would be better projected with; if you are looking for someone that enjoys life and all of the adventures that are still to be experienced we might enjoy each other’s company. 

·         As you are developing your profile make sure you are projecting the image that you want others to see.  Keep in mind the profile is an appetizer and you want the reader interested enough to want to know more about the person.

Now it is time to give a little thought to the person you want to project to other local available singles in your area.  In utilizing the tips you are sure to find potential people to date along with many that will become great friends.